Silom is alive with development. Every 3rd building is under construction and the road is a constant maze of detours and construction zones edged with clusters of street stalls busy with activity.Selena Sol in Thailand A schizophrenia worthy of any proto-cyberian city. Unfinished monoliths of modernity streak skyward out of the exhaust fume painted squalor of squatter slums; solitary virgin shoots out of a freshly decimated forest floor (though always tied to the unseen ancestral root system). Urban sprawl as far as the eye can see.
Soy and her sister Pet, drive me from the airport to the "Sathorn Inn" (The expressway is a ghost road at 1 AM) where I immediately fall into a deep slumber, having stayed awake for the 26 hour flight so as to fool my internal clock out of jet lag.Note: In Thai hotel rooms, you must place the room key in a slot above the main light switch in order to activate the electricity. Take out the key and break the circuit. My first night was spent without lights or air conditioning because I did not figure this out.Up at 5:30 AM to the arhythmically rhythmical sounds of roadside restaurateurs preparing for the day ahead. Showered in the darkness (still hadnt figured the room key thing out) and sat on the balcony waiting for Soy and watching the sun rise over downtown Bangkok.
In the darkness, the cramped and twisted back alleyways, "Sois", alive with preparation appear otherwise dull and dingy except for the candle lit, gold-painted spirit houses which protect each home from evil spirits and the frantic buzz of people. Dozens. Hundreds. Thousands. Millions of people.Note: Picture ten million people, two million cars, hundreds of temples, thousands of restaurants, markets, skyscrapers, sleepy canals and street stalls all pressing against each other 24 hours a day like commuters in a Paris metro in rush hour and you get Bangkok, the "City of Angels".Khao Men Gai for breakfast bought from an old shirtless smiley cavern-toothed man on the side of the road and a parade of skinny, whiny cats to fend off. I am glad that Soy can order for us in the beginning. I also know how much this meal "really" costs for future reference.Note: Horror stories tend to be circulated about the dangers of eating anything from street stalls. Do not believe them. Unless you have a particularly weak stomach, almost anything a Thai offers you will be good. Water is always boiled before served or bottled water is provided. As for the food, the small noodle shop on the corner of some Soi or the little old lady who sells grilled chicken and rice at the market provide some of the most tasty and safe local cuisine. As a ground rule check that the food is freshly cooked and if you have just arrived, go easy at first. Beyond that put your worries aside and feast. The Thais do and they are healthy enough.Soy is at work now and I am walking towards the grand palace on Silom Road. Swarms of monoxide coughing motorcycles gather at every red light carrying dozens of side saddle sitting Thai women to work, their refined flawless appearances contrasting with the greasy motorcycle cabbies with their numbered vests and smog protection masks. I am already rather dizzy myself from 15 minutes on foot during rush hour.Here are the phrases I needed (but of course I also pointed a lot)
chawp phet = I like it spicy
mii mai? = Do you have
Khao Suay = Rice
Gai = Chicken
Neua = Beef
lae = and
Chan chab naam deum khuat = Id like bottled water.
Kii baht = How many Baht is it (25 Baht/1 $US)?
Khit waa phaeng pai = I think thats too much.
Khap Khun Krub = Thank You.
Khaw thot = Excuse me.Note: If you go to Bangkok, don't expect to find a center of town like in US cities. There isn't one. The city's development has been rapid and haphazard with temples, hotels, shopping centers and high rises spread randomly over a larger area than the entire county of LA. There are however, several main districts connected by a network of over congested roads and winding side streets. Things I needed to say while getting around. Khaw Thot, Phom haa = Excuse me, I am looking for
Sawat dii Krub = Hello
Phom phuut phaasaa thai mai dai krub = I cant speak Thai.
Khun Phuut phaasaa angkrit dai mai krub? = Can you speak English?
Phom mai khao jai krub = I dont understand.
Tuk Tuks are three wheeled open car/motorcycles with a curved roof and room for two passengers. The benefit of taking a Tuk Tuk or a motorcycle cab instead of a regular metered cab or a bus is that you can zip through the wall of traffic (You can easily spend an hour in a 20 block commute). Sometimes you go between lanes, sometimes on side walks and sometimes in oncoming lanes. The problem is that you typically need to bargain the fare and you'll get ripped off every time. Plus there are no windows to roll up and protect you from the foul air.We commence to cruise by several "Wats" (Buddhist Temples) where I see all sorts of majestic Buddha statues and Buddhist compounds with their intricate towers and buildings. Each time I am fortunate enough to find someone there who speaks enough English to tell me about the meanings behind and the history of the temples. Sometimes I actually sneak on to the back of tour groups coming from the large Hotels on busses and listen to their guides until shooed away.
Note: If you light any, note that you should un-rubberband the incense from the candle and place the smoking incense in the sand pot and the lighted candle in the madora. Most Farangs (foreigners), without watching the locals first, just put the whole thing in the sand pot.On many statues flap gold flakes pasted on by worshippers. Most Wats are plentifully adorned with ceramics and stone images from Thai, Indian and Buddhist folklore. Monstrous Yakshas Nagas and Kinari bar their teeth at you as you enter. Along the walls intricately detailed historical/mythological murals depict more stories than I have time to ask people to retell for me.
Note: The state official religion is Theravada or Hinayana Buddhism and about 90% of the population are Buddhists (though much less are practicing, just like the percentage of Christians in the U.S.) Buddhism comes from its founder Gautama Buddha of Nepal India. It is believed by some academics that Buddhism came to Thailand c.269-237 BC brought by Indian merchants and emigrants and particularly two monks Phra Sona and Phra Uttara. There it was meshed with traditional beliefs as well as bits and pieces from Hinduism. There are four noble truths in Buddhism:Then the tuk tuk driver asks me to see some shopping centers. I am not too interested but he is persistent. A whirlwind tour of jewelry and tailor shops ensues. As it turns out, the "real" reason that I got such a good rate on the tuk tuk was not because of Buddha Day as I was told, but because the tuk tuk driver gets a commission for bringing farangs. A liter of gas even if I dont buy anything and a percentage if I do. Why I looked like a deep-pocketed tourist Ill never know. Forty minutes of that and the driver seemed to realize that my patience was thinning and drove me back. On the plus side, I did get to see many of the wats that Id intended to see and I did get a tour of many areas of Bangkok that may not have been on a tour route. Also, I am reminded early to be more careful. It has been awhile since Europe and Im not in the swing of dodging scams.Buddhism is so strongly ingrained that every male reaching 20 years of age strives to enter the monkhood at least once for three months at the least before death. But this period is highly adjustable these days for economic reasons.
- The Noble Truth of Suffering - namely of birth (rebirth), disease, old age, death, sorrow, lamentation, pain, grief, despair; association with objects we dislike, separation from objects we love. Happy time and pleasure exist but are fleeting. Buddhism says our existence is but suffering caused be desires.
- The Noble Truth of the Cause of Suffering - The threefold craving: Sensual craving, craving for existence, and craving for wealth and power. There is also a further six-fold craving: the eye craves form, the ear craves sound, the nose for smell, the tongue for taste, the body for objects, and the mind for dreams. These cravings and ignorance of the law of nature are the conditions of the origin of individual suffering.
- The Noble Truth of the Cessation of Suffering - Found by the complete cessation of and detachment from the three and six fold cravings. When the mind has given up all these cravings we realize Nirvana.
- The Noble Truth of the Path Leading to the Cessation of Suffering - This is an eight fold "middle path" avoiding the two extremes of sensual pleasure and self-mortification. They are
- Right Knowledge (Study)
- Right Intention (elimination of ambition, revenge, hate, greed, lust and violence)
- Right Speech (ending lies, controlling words, compassion and sympathy)
- Right Action (do not kill, steal, indulge in sexuality, slander or take drugs)
- Right Livelihood (pursue a trade, build, create)
- Right Effort (Live a good life free of evil)
- Right Attentiveness (Be aware of your body and mind and stay healthy and clean)
- Right Concentration (Develop wisdom)
Note: Here is a list of scams to watch out for compiled from several tourist guides:Lunch at the "Little Home" where they serve pancakes with Maple Syrup as the house specialty desert. Reminds me of Dave saying that the traditional American breakfast is pretty unhealthy. I have Pad Thai, my old standby and find that American Thai restaurants are very faithful to the traditional recipes. I suspect it will not be the same for Chinese food in China though.
- Beware of drivers or locals who offer to take you on cheap tours or to show you around shops or gem stores. Be especially wary when they tell you that it is a special "tax free" day and that you could buy extra stuff on your VISA and resell it in your home country for double the price or send it back to the shop for a refund if you cant.
- Do not accept offers for drugs, especially from a newfound "friend".
- Beware of credit card fraud. If possible demand that your card be endorsed in front of you. Do not let them take the card out of your sight, even in "nice" stores.
- Make sure that if you go into a "seedy bar" you settle on the total price beforehand. Even if there is no cover charge, expect to be forced to buy a drink for yourself and for others which will end up costing a few hundred dollars, the bill being presented by four or five tacklers.
- Do not "go home" with any locals or invite them overnight (Be especially wary of fellow foreigners who have expatriated).
- If you pay in advance for a hotel room, demand a receipt.
- As always, beware of pick pocketers. Every time you open your wallet you may be being cased.
- If you get pulled over by a cop while driving, try saying, "Can we just settle this here? How much will the ticket cost, 50 baht?"
Note: Thai food is extremely cheap. $6 will feed two at even the most posh restaurants and $1 is plenty for a meal on the road. However, portions are smaller (maybe 75% of an American Thai meal). But, since it is so hot, ones appetite is reduced and the smaller portions are very satisfying.After dinner, Soy and I stay in until I fall asleep.
[Internet Café, Internet Thailand]
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Here is a list of books I used to help me get along..